It is not selfish to pump and bottle feed your baby. It is also not selfish to formula feed your baby. Stop shaming mothers for making choices that will never have any effect on you.
27 year old, Canadian woman trying to make a life for my little family in this world. I'm married to a wonderful man named Ryan, and we have 2 little girls, Anna who is 2 and Grace who was born May 30, 2014. I'm a laid back parent who "inclusively" breast feeds, does homemade baby food and a baby led weaning combo, and cloth diapers both kiddies.